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School was GREAT! We got there super early because I wasn’t sure how long it would take to drive, park and walk in. As soon as we walked in the class, Cole could care less about us. Drew and Cole were pulling toys off the shelves and ecstatic to be there. Paige was clinging to me and wasn’t really branching out. The teacher gave the parents the option to stay the full time or leave whenever they felt comfortable. Since today was a shorter time than normal, we chose to leave after five minutes. There’s no point in staying and confusing the kids for the next school day which is a bit longer than today’s class. Cole was like “see ya”, Drew was not happy to leave all the toys, and Paige lost it. I sat in the office to see how long it would take her to settle down and was thrilled to hear the screaming stop after four minutes. Drew and I took off to Starbucks feeling pretty good about the whole situation. Apparently while we were frolicking Paige would cry on and off the whole hour of preschool. When we went back to get them, Paige was playing with animals on the floor and Cole was vacuuming in the corner. I’ve never seen Cole lose his mind as much as he did when it was time to leave. He was screaming and kicking and flailing so much I couldn’t even carry him out. Add to that a tired Drew that didn’t want to leave either and I was panicking. Paige was the only one ready to go. I told her I had her precious Starbucks ice water waiting for her in the car. Thank God for Starbucks because she was so willing to go the car that I asked her to walk Drew out and she said “Paige get Drew”, ran over grabbed his hand, and walked him out to the car in the parking lot. I carried a screaming mad Cole who proceeded to cry for the whole way home and about ten minutes after we got home. If he acts like this every time we leave school, I’m going to have issues. I may have to bring a stroller? strait jackets? a bouncer?? Between Cole screaming, Paige crying on and off for an hour, and Drew feeling very left out and upset, we had a nap at 11:15 today. Our normal naptime is around 12:30. Wow.
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Saturday we took the kids for their “Back to School Haircuts” even though Eric says they’re not back-to-school when we’ve never been to school. The kids did awesome. Paige was talking to her stylist and Drew sat like a champ on the dinosaur chair. It was pretty awesome to remember what they used to be like getting their hair cut, and now seeing other kids freaking out and crying and our kids so big. Afterwards we went to the water play area and I told Eric it was a waste of time because the last five times or so the kids have not wanted to play at all. I’m just not going to make any assumptions any more because all three kids are continually proving me wrong. They played a long time in that water and were sopping wet. When we were headed back to the car Eric stopped at Starbucks and picked Paige up an ice water. It was in a Starbucks cup and you’d think Paige was holding her own version of liquid gold. It was so cute. She kept saying Daddy Starbucks. Awwww.
The other day we were sitting on the potty and Paige said chocolate for poopy? and I said yikes, Daddy ate all your potty chocolate (bad daddy) but if you go poopy on the potty we’ll go the store. Her reply? Starbucks for poopy? I thought Eric was going to wet himself he was laughing so hard.
Yesterday we went to our pediatric dentist. I hyped it up all morning and the night before so we were mentally prepared. The office has a cool play area in the waiting room with a spaceship slide and all. The kids were playing on the slides and were not apprehensive at all. We went in the back area and they started to get a little skiddish, but I put them both in the dentist chair together and they were totally fine. They didn’t cry at all, and opened their mouths great for the dentist. Good news! Their teeth are great and we don’t need to go back until six months from now. Cole was so cooperative they were able to clean his teeth, Paige they just did a flouride treatment on, they’ll clean next visit.
Today is our first day of school!! I think we’re ready. I’ve been talking about it for days, weeks, months. They know who’s going and who’s not (no Drew or Mommy), they know their teacher’s name, they know Mommy’s coming back when preschool’s over. I’m certain they’re not even going to cry. They’re so big now. My babies are growing up!
Related Posts:Okay…l’ll admit. When we first kicked around the idea of going on this mega vacation I was hesitant, scared, resistant. That’s me though! Now looking back I am sooooo glad I didn’t talk us out of this trip! We had the best time, hung out with family and did some really cool stuff. All the things I was worried about just seemed to work themselves out and the whole trip was really easy and nice. Sigh! Something I’ve been trying to do since Drew was born is ask myself “would you do it/go if you had just one kid?”, and of course we would go with one kid…so I shouldn’t psych myself out because we have three.
Flying out of Chicago on our first leg of the trip, I remember thinking I just wish the plane would route us back to Phoenix because it just can’t get any better than our time in Chicago. The weather was perfect, our sleeping arrangements were perfect, there were a ton of parks (and Starbucks) within walking distance of my aunt’s house and the kids were so happy. They were sticking to their nap schedules, life was good. It was equally fantastic in NY. At both my brother’s house and Aunt Amy’s house they had monstrous bedrooms (love those old historical homes) that could easily accomodate all of us. We bought a pack-n-play our first day in NY for Drew, my aunt in Chicago borrowed a new one for us, which was critical to our sleeping. Another thing I was worried about before leaving on our trip was Paige sleeping next to us and getting comfortable with that sleeping arrangement and not wanting to sleep on her own again once we returned home. Luckily with all the sleeping set-ups we had, she only slept next to Cole, and I think she would be glad to sleep in her own princess bed after sleeping with that flipping/mumbling/crazy sleeper.
The kids were so adaptable and easy-breezy the whole trip it was amazing to watch them. They were super great on the airplanes (another big worry of mine)…but Eric booked all our flights around their naptimes so they slept the majority of every flight. Nice!!! Paige wasn’t freaked out at all by the engines, she wasn’t freaked out by my brother’s two doggies or my aunt’s dog. In fact, she would chase the doggies around the houses and when we’d go out to dinner she’d say “bye Scooter” and when we were coming home she’d say “Scooter home?”. So cute! Now I’m convinced our kids just don’t like Moxie that much. We may need a smaller younger doggie if Moxie should ever leave us. Where’s Homer when you need him?? Speaking of Moxie…she had a nice present on the carpet waiting for us when we got home. Uugh.
Anyways…back to the trip…super glad we didn’t bring carseats. We wouldn’t have been able to manage if we had. Super glad we brought our double stroller. That was key to getting in and out of the airports. We’d put the boys and our carry-on bags on the stroller. I’d push the stroller with one hand and hold onto Paige’s hand with my other hand. Eric would have to carry our two check-in bags. Not to future self: make sure all future luggage has wheels and a handle. Poor Eric had to carry one really old piece of luggage and was able to wheel the other one. All our hosts were amazing. Everyone we stayed with had “new” toys for us to play with. Nikki was able to score us some great stuff we were able to bring home with us from FAO. Thanks Nikki! Seriously…are we lucky ducks or what? We ate like pigs, enjoying that East Coast cuisine and it was great to dine out because Drew could sit in a highchair at the table with us. Aunt Amy and Aunt Nancy were able to borrow booster seats and highchairs for Drew for those portions of the trip so again we were super lucky.
So…getting to the best part of the trip….seeing everyone!!! I love all of you! I love being in your environments. I so wish we lived in NY so our kids could grow up kissing and hugging all the time (I know I’m still awkward at that public display of affection, but that doesn’t mean mentally I’m not loving it). I’d love for our kids to be surrounded by aunts, uncles, and cousins all the time so they’re not so dependent on us. They absolutely thrived being around you guys and that was awesome! It was so cool to finally meet the Ghariablets. I really feel like I know them…even though we really don’t…and I still think Oprah is missing out on a really cool show if she had us all on there. I am so happy you guys made the drive from Detroit (that was crazy, but it gives me warm fuzzies to know how excited you guys were too to meet us). I think it’d be great to have you guys out to visit in the summer, especially now that we’ve met and we know you’re not psycho.
So in summary….I’m looking forward to our next trip to NY and Chi-town. In fact I’ll be counting the days!! I’m so glad we made the trip when we did. I’m glad that my cousins weren’t back in school and were able to hang out with us. I’m glad that Eric’s family were able to come over each night and spend time with us. I’m glad we pooped before getting on each of the flights. I’m glad some genius created Fruit Roll-ups. I’m glad we have such amazing friends and family that helped to make this the best trip ever!! Thanks again!!!
Related Posts:So on Monday we drove from NJ to Brooklyn to stay with Aunt Amy and Uncle David. Thank god we brought our girl Hertzy with us. She’s the GPS unit Hertz puts in their cars. We just plugged in the address and we were off. I can never get over how crazy driving is out here. The whole time we were driving, Tobie and I were talking about the Amazing Race. There must be so much fighting between team members, because traveling in NY is stressful, traveling around the world without GPS, forget about it. Now GPS units are great, but you have to put in the correct address to bring it to your location. I forgot to put an East in front of the street address and we were taken to another house. Luckily that house was only 10 minutes away from our destination.
Aunt Amy’s house is a death trap. There I said it! I kid, I kid Aunt Amy! But the kids did get hurt a few times. The first night, Cole was screwing around on the stairs inside and fell about 7 steps. He was fine though. The next morning he took a tumble down about 7 cement steps outside. We took him to a friendly doctor that cleaned him right up. He might have a scar on his forehead. Luckily chicks dig scars.

Bring on the steps!
We had a good time, lots of family to play with the kids. The kids take about 10 minutes to adapt to a new person. Cole met his new best friend Dan, who is around 13 years old. Have we ever mentioned Cole’s fascination with older kids? If we’re out in public and he sees an older boy, he’ll just go up to him and stair. It’s cute and creepy at the same time. Anyways, with Dan in the house, Cole was able to live the dream and hang out with him all day long. Dan was fantastic with Cole! We might have to adopt an older brother when we get back to AZ just to keep Cole happy.

What came first, the Cole or the egg?
We didn’t do much site seeing in NY. Maybe next time when the kids are older. However, we did go to Prospect Park Zoo. It’s a little zoo in Brooklyn. Cole as always loved it, the other kids, meh! Not having a consistent nap schedule really caught up with us today. Did we ever tell you the kids drink from the same style sippy cup, but each kid has their own color and they won’t drink from the other kids’ cups? Earlier at the zoo, we threw out Drew’s blue cup because it stank really bad, too bad he was really thirsty when we were at a restaurant afterwards. He wouldn’t drink without it and had a complete meltdown. Made for an interesting day. Well, tomorrow back to Chicago for the last leg of our trip! I’ve triple checked our departure time.

Bye bye porcupine!

Cya Chi-Town! Hello NY!
Even though I booked all the airplane tickets, I never double checked the flight times. Now in my defense, I’ve emailed everyone the flight info and no one had corrected me when I said we leave for NY at 6 AM. The flight to NY Saturday morning was at 6:50 AM instead of 6 AM like I kept telling myself. So we woke up at 3 AM to get ready and leave for the airport. All things considered, we could have left closer to 5 AM because we got to the airport, dropped off the rental car, checked in our baggage and made it through security in no time flight. Why do I have the feeling Tobie is going to hang this over my head for a long time? On the plus side, it allowed us to get breakfast before the flight. It was a revolving door of meltdowns until the plane flight. Once on board, all 3 kids passed out for most of the flight. We got lucky again on flight #2.

Surprisingly, swinging in NY is very similar than swinging in AZ!
We’re just relaxing and hanging out at Uncle Greg and Aunt Nikki’s house for most of the weekend. We’ve already had NY pizza twice (okay, I’ve had pizza twice). I have to say, I like NY pizza better than Chicago pizza. Both are much better than you can get it in Arizona. In fact, I wish places in Arizona would stop advertising as NY or Chicago pizza, because they are no where close to being as good.

Cole on a hill!
One funny thing that’s happened on this trip is Cole started calling Tobie by her name instead of mommy. He’s had some incredible comedic timing when he blurts out her name. I don’t think I’ve ever laughed as hard as when he called her Tobie the other day, but with such a tone of disapproval. It doesn’t translate well to the written word, but trust me, it’s funny stuff. So for now on, if you are around Tobie with the kids, her name is mommy, not Tobie. Got it?
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Chicago, the land of pizza, brats, and italian beef love!
We chilled out on our second day in Chicago. Went to the park a few times. Within a few blocks of Aunt Nancy’s house there are like 500 parks or something. Aunt Nancy lives in Western Springs, which is a very quaint town. It’s a total slice of Americana. Small stores, trains, parks, historical buildings, Starbucks, and people outside playing everywhere.

Cole, Paige, Lessa, and Ivy in the flesh (and parents and Drew of course)
(and large man holding even larger fish what happens in Chicago stays in Chicago)
On our third day in Chicago, we met up with the Gharaiblets in downtown Chicago. They drove like 5 hours or so form Michigan to see us. How cool is that? Now for those who don’t know, they delivered triplets on the same exact day as us at the same exact gestational age of 24 weeks (maybe off by a day or so). Our stories are very similar. We had never met before, but have gotten to know each other from the blogs. Who says the Internet is impersonal? Anyhoo, we met up at the Shedd Aquarium. Nancy said it was the busiest she had ever seen it. It was pretty crazy. I don’t even think we saw 1/2 of the exhibits. We went to the dolphin show, or should I call it the human show, because the guy talked more than the dolphins performed. I really just don’t care dolphins can occasionally save people as the announcer put it, we just want to see them jump out of the water. As Paige put it “more dolphin daddy”. That’s right more dolphin less talky.

Cole and his women.
All of our kids were cranky. P & C only got about 25 minutes of napping so they weren’t in their prime. We all took the water taxi to Navy Pier and had dinner at some BBQ restaurant. We had to wolf down the dinner because the last water taxi back to the aquarium was leaving at 7 which gave us only a few minutes to eat.

Paige loving her first rib!
So far on this trip, the kids have been exposed to for the first time: planes, trains, boats and now ribs!. They are loving life. The only reason I posted tonight was to beat Namir to the proverbial blog post punch!
Well, have to cut this one short, have to get up at 3 am for a flight to NY. Kill me (again).

Goodbye Chicago!

“Who are all these people behind me?”
We were definitely nervous the night before the big trip. It was 2 AM and neither of us had slept a wink. Coincidently, a huge monsoon rolled in and our windows were getting pelted with rain which didn’t help in the falling asleep department. So with about 3-4 hours sleep, we got the kids up and dressed and headed to the aiport. People that know me, know that when I fly I try to get to the airport just as they are about to board the plane. This has resulted is some very sweaty moments as I’ve had to run around aiports to catch my plane. That being said, I gave us a 3 hour window from leaving the house to get to the gate.

Only 2 more hours to we land. We can do it!
Things went very smoothly, almost a little too smoothly. Paige freaked out only once when we were boarding the bus from the parking lot to the terminal. The bus driver was being nice and lowered the bus so she could get it, but doing so releases a bunch of air and a loud noise. Man did we get nervous when we saw that freak out. How was she going to be when the rumbling on the plane starts? Needless to say, we got the car parked, got the baggage checked in, and made it through the security gate wth almost 2 hours to spare. Crap, now what?

Getting ready for bed!
We started pulling out all our tricks to get the kids busy at the gate. We were hoping to save all that for the plane. Did you know Southwest doesn’t pre-board families anymore? Would have been good to know before I decided to print boarding passes late. Thankfully, a nice lady moved for us allowing us to sit in a row together. Drew fell asleep right away. After giving the other two bendryl, tylenol, some motrin, and some liquor, they soon passed out too. We totally trashed the plan, we used all our snacks the entire flight to keep everyone busy and the floors were covered in crushed cheese nips, pretzels, crackers, dried yogurt thingys. Having Drew in our laps, not the best move. He is too freaking big and it was soooo uncomfortable. Anyone notice how all flights are full nowadays?
Our kids totally rocked. And you guys were nervous, come on! The funny thing was, behind me, a couple had their daughter who was about the same age as C & P, and they were arguing on taking care of the kid, because she wasn’t dealing well with the flight. She needs to take lessons from our kids (minus throwing toys, bottles, and food all over the floor)!

Oh yeah,swimming!
On this trip we are getting 3 rental cars and renting car seats on each leg of the journey. I have to say, the first leg worked out really well. The car seats are very nice and all 3 fit very snugly in the back seat of our Chevy Trailblazer (no min-vans for us). I totally botched the rental car rental though. We flew in to Midway, but are leaving from O’hare to NY on Saturday. Luckily they are letting us return the car to O’hare, at 4 in the morning mind you!
The kids are doing really great. I think they get the concept of vacation. We are all sleeping in the same room together and Paige and Cole are sleeping on a queen pull out couch. All that space on the bed, and they end up sleeping on top of each other. Funny stuff.
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Okay, we’ve got room for Drew and Paige and her balls in the luggage. I guess we’ll just bring Cole as our carry-on item.
I’ve been telling Tobie we were going to take our first family trip to San Diego all summer. I’m not sure how it happened, but me having a business meeting in Chicago turned into a 9 day trip to Chicago and New York, serving as our first family trip. You know, the past few years we’ve been on a roller coaster and have seen things that would cause you not to sleep for weeks, but getting ready for our first family trip is scaring us sh$tless. How much stuff should we bring? What should we bring on the plane? Are the kids going to freak out in the airport? Are the kids going to be okay on the plane? What if the rental car agencies do not have any more car seats for rent? What if the kids want to sit in the emergency row? What if one of the kids in the no-fly list? You know, your basic set of worries!
The kids are totally at ease at home. How are they going to react outside of their element for 9 days? Today we went to the park for the first time all summer. There was a landscaper there with his gas powered weed whacker. Paige was physically disturbed and totally freaked out from the noise and the guy was no closer than 30 feet away. We had to go home. How is she going to react when we are trapped in a plane when it takes off? I already feel sorry for everyone flying with us. I wonder if Southwest Airlines are going to give us gift certificates to never fly with them again? Do airlines do that?
Not too long ago in our near past, our kids were great out in public. They had great manners and never made a scene. We use to get tons of compliments on how well behaved all 3 were in public. Apparently we lost them at some restaurant and they have been replaced by “typical” kids who throw things on the floor, who won’t stay in their seats, who whine and scream. I can feel the looks by other patrons at the bar (why did they bring their kids to a micro brew –it’s because daddy needs a beer, duh).
Based on some recommendations from other parents, Tobie called the peed’s office to ask if they prescribed medication to help with flying. Tobie got a lecture and was told to bring a book. You know what pisses me off? When medical professionals tell you how to parent instead of just doing their job and sticking to medicine. Bring a book. Unreal.
Circling back around, this trip is going to be absolutely nuts, but great at the same time. Tobie and I will need a vacation for sure after this trip. We bought a bunch of new toys and books to bring on the plane, but considering the kids have the attention span of a gnat, i think we’re screwed. Oh, did i mention we booked our trip to NY from Chicago at 6 AM? Yeah, we’re screwed.
List any travelling with toddlers advice in the comments below.
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