Oh No!! Where’s the boob?

tobie   March 16th, 2008      10 comments...sweet!

The Family minus Paige

So a few updates:

Soda….yummmWe need schedules.  We have been winging it the last couple of weeks and doing super fun things it seems like everyday.  Where this gets us in trouble is naptimes.  If we sleep in the car, it’s not a great sleep and it’s not as long as if we were in our little beds.  Not only that, but I can not put them back down for naptime after they take cat naps in the car.  Which makes me not want to do anything before naptime only after naptimes.  Which should be fine because all our therapies are now in the mornings.  However, the AZ weather has been GORGEOUS these last couple of weeks and we have been outside all day long.  I know these times are short-lived so I guess I should just roll with the flow and we can get more on a schedule when it’s too blazing hot to do anything.  The other day we missed our nap, I tried really hard to get them down, but after an hour of babbling and screwing around in their beds it’s obvious it’s not going to happen.  Anyways, Paige was extremely tired and fussy but she was not sleeping.  So we all headed back downstairs and I have to carry big D downstairs because he can go up the stairs but not down.  Paige tripped and fell down the last three stairs.  I tried to make light of it and said “geez Paige, you tumbled!”.  She then thought tumbling was super cool and headed back up the stairs almost to the top and launched herself into a tumble down the stairs.  I think I lost my mind with that episode.  I yelled so hard at her I think the neighbors were ready to call CPS.  Sometimes these kids do things they’re not supposed to do just to get a reaction so now I’m afraid next time she’s tired or irritable she’ll try it again just to piss me off.  This was on Wednesday and we’re now at Sunday and she hasn’t repeated it so we’ll see.

Easter Egg Hunt #1Something else that’s been going on.  We’ve been using our strollers less and less.  We love to walk everywhere (plus it wears them out so I encourage it whenever possible).  If I go out by myself I usually take a double stroller and walk a toddler.  One of my toddlers is totally on-board with this plan, my other toddler will rip her own arm out of the socket if I ask her to hold my hand.  The tantrums she has with hand-holding is mindblowing.  I refuse to give in to her and let her walk free because I do not feel she would listen if she got in trouble (like walking in front of a car).  Eric has ordered us those animal backpacks where the tails are “leashes”.  We’ll see if she’ll even wear the backpack.  I think it’s one of those things where we just need to keep wearing her down until she relents to holding our hands.  Break ‘em to build ‘em back up. 

Drew is on whole milk.  I know he didn’t make it to 12 months but I talked to Cole’s GI doc about switching to whole milk as well as our peed’s office.  GI said we could make the switch anywhere between 9-12 months and our peed said after 11 months.  Drew will be 11 months on Wed.  He still isn’t completely off the boob, but I seriously doubt that that faucet is more than a trickle at this point.  Drew loves milk.  We read that you are supposed to give only one feeding the first day of milk then if tolerated switch completely over the next day.  Drew chugged that milk like he was downing a shot at a fraternity party.  I still need to write a blog about the beauty of breastfeeding and pat myself on the back for sticking with it for this long.  But another day.  Drew still isn’t walking independently, but he’s getting closer.  He now knows “how big?” and it’s cute to see all three kids raise their hands when asked “how big are you?”.

Police CarCole lost his voice yesterday.  He doesn’t act sick so it may be an allergy thing.  Uncle Greg is in town staying with us again.  We LOVE Uncle Greg.  This is not biological Uncle Greg…but Adopted Uncle Greg.  Cole and Greg were inseparable yesterday.  Greg helped out with our swim lesson so Daddy could stay with Drew and then we went to an Easter Egg Hunt that Greg told us about.  The kids were not impressed with the hunt because it was plastic eggs everywhere.  No challenge in finding those eggs.  Then we didn’t let them eat the candy, so where was the fun in that?  The fun for Cole was meeting the Easter Bunny and both P and C were able to sit in a police car.  That was cool.  Paige still hates all animals, even fake animals in costumes.  We are doing one more Easter egg hunt next weekend at our church, so this weekend was good practice. 

PaigePaige is super tall.  She would have outgrown her crib if we still had her in one, so it’s good that she’s in her toddler bed.  She is still doing great in her toddler bed.  She used to crawl out several times a night, then it became a couple times a night.  Now she’s lazy and doesn’t climb out at all, but she’ll wake up several times a night again and yell until someone comes to check on her.  Uugg.  Can’t this girl just sleep?  Oh well.  At least she’s staying in her bed.  Back to her being super tall….she now knows how to unlock and open the front door.  Yikes!!!!  We have the high safety lock on the inside of the door, but I’m afraid I’ll forget to lock it and she’ll come along and open the door and then Drew will head to the street.  Something to give me nightmares.  Paige can also turn the lights on and off at will now.  Uugg.  I’m going to have to get firm with rules here soon.  I’ve ordered the Supernanny books off Amazon because I think Jo is a Goddess.  According to what I’ve learned from the show, if you don’t have a game plan set and stick exactly to it, don’t bother with discipline.  It has to be super consistent and precise.  Which is why I don’t want to start it until Eric and I have done the readings.  But we need to start discipline STAT! 

Cole talking back to the copperEric and I went on another date last Friday.  I know what everyone is thinking.  Geez…that’s like 3 dates in the last three months for you guys.  We’re making up for the last 2+ years.  We went to a Spring Training game with every other person in town it seemed.  It was awesome to be out in the sun with my babe, beer, hotdogs, and baseball.  I think it’ll be awesome when I can take the kids to the ballpark too.  Oh, good times.

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    Food For Thought

    eric   March 13th, 2008      2 comments...sweet!

    Drew
    “Oh yeah, that’s the stuff”

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    Playground Etiquette

    tobie   March 12th, 2008      8 comments...sweet!

    So we just returned from our local public playground park and I’m soooo angry.  We got to the park early and set up camp.  It’s difficult getting to and from the park with three kids and all their toys, but we’ve got a system now and it works.  We had to leave the park earlier than I anticipated because I was so annoyed with this little boy that I didn’t want to beat up a six year old and get arrested.  Every time we go to the park we bring our choo choo wagon, a play wagon, two buckets, three shovels, two cars, and a rake.  I let everyone and anyone play with our stuff as long as we are not using it.  There have been times when other kids will try and rip our toys out of our hands and I have to say “hey those are ours!”.  But most times other kids are respectful.  And most times parents will step in if their kids are taking our toys out of our hands. 

    Today we had set up camp in the sand pit in the precious shade and were playing very nicely with other kids.  Mostly we were keeping to ourselves (except Cole…but he’s Mr. Social at the park).  Then this boy comes out of nowhere (no parental supervision in sight) and plunks down next to us with the coolest trucks and cars.  Of course Drew and Cole go bezerk because there’s no way this boy can play with ALL the toys he brought.  So whatever he wasn’t playing with, my boys would try and borrow.  Then the boy would get mad and rip his toys out of our hands and say “no, don’t touch that…MINE”.  Okay…if you’re not going to share…get your sorry butt out of our area.  And where’s his mom to encourage him to share?  Then the brat started purposefully pushing his trucks and cars in front of my kids to taunt them.  I almost kicked him.  I said very loudly hoping a parent would step in “guys…just ignore this kid.  He’s not nice.  He doesn’t know how to share”.  I almost asked him to move away from us, but it’s a public park and I couldn’t do that.  So after Cole and Drew both started throwing fits because the boy wouldn’t share his multitude of toys, we packed up and came home.  How fair is that?  Note to other parents:  don’t drop your kids off at the park and go to Starbucks.  Step in if your kid is being a brat.  Encourage sharing.  Stay home if you don’t want to share.  Maybe I don’t know proper park etiquette.  Maybe you’re not supposed to share or play together.  Maybe I’m too involved.  Maybe I should just sit on my butt and quit being a Mama Bear protecting her cubs.  I’m just annoyed right now.

    Note to Eric:  we need to go shopping for sand toys.  That way we won’t have to yearn for other kids’ stuff.  Yes…I’m going to need a trailer hitch to tote all the toys back and forth to the park everyday.

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    How Far We’ve Come

    eric   March 11th, 2008      3 comments...sweet!

    Drew SlideJust a year or so ago I would be so amazed as I watched our kids develop every day.  Back then I remember the joy I would have when they held their heads up on their own for the first time, or when they rolled over for the first time, or when they grabbed onto their first toy with their little bitty hands, or when they banged two toys together for the first time.  Back then anything that showed us any progress in their development got me to breathe a little easier about them being equal with their peers one day.  Unfortunately the first few years it seemed like I was looking at them through the eyes of a therapist rather than a father.  Everything about them was so planned out.  Every action catalogued.  Every milestone scrutinized.  It really took most of the fun out of being their father because with every milestone met, there were a plethora of milestones we were months behind in reaching.  My how far we’ve come.  Our kids have always been incredible, but lately they are rocking the casbah and I’m loving every minute of it.

    Paige SlideWe now have full on conversations.  When I’m talking to the kids, I have no idea what the topic of conversation is, but we could talk for hours.  “Oh No”, “Wee”, and “Wow” are the words of choice in our house, but if you listen closely, you can tell they are trying to say so much more.  They know lots of animal names and all their sounds.  They know colors.  They know people’s names.  Tobie still has the benefit of understanding most of their language.  I just pretend I’m a tourist around them.  Smile and nod.  Smile and nod.

    Cole On The SlideTonight I prepared dinner while the family was outside playing.  I yelled dinner time and everyone came inside.  I told Paige to go to her chair, she immediately climbed in her chair waiting for dinner.  I told Cole to shut the door to the patio and go to his chair.  He totally complied with both my orders (I run a tight ship I tell you).  I now see why in olden times when people lived on farms they would breed non-stop.  It was so they could get more workers for the farm because if you get these kids in line early enough, they’ll do just about everything you say!

    The kids have also become desert foxes.  They love the outdoors.  Cole loves to go in the backyard and play with sticks and just cruise around inspecting the yard.  If there is sand around, he loves to dig with a shovel and fill up buckets with sand.  Paige loves rocks.  You can see if the picture above she’s hording all the clothes.  She does the same things with rocks.  She’ll gather as many rocks as she can carry and play with them.  Unfortunately Moxie now has to drink rock water. It seems like just a few months ago they would trying eating the rocks.  The only downside of their new outdoor freedom is we live in AZ.  In just about 40 days or so it’s going to be 100+ degrees.  They better learn to play board games ASAP!

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    Happy Monday

    eric   March 10th, 2008      6 comments...sweet!

    Paige And Her Flip Flops
    Look how nice and centered her pupils are.

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    Sad morning

    tobie   March 8th, 2008      4 comments...sweet!

    So I’m here this morning feeling sad.  Don’t know why exactly, I have been having one of the best weeks ever.  I just read a post on a blog from one of our old NICU nurses.  She was Kaylee’s nurse and was with us on Kaylee’s last day.  On her blog she was saying how hard it is to do her job and how she feels selfish for going home to her amazing family while there are parents staying at the NICU praying for their own children to live.  She said how hard it is to work on the preemies that are hooked up to ventilators and wires and probes coming out of every hole in their bodies and she commented on how it is hard to look at these babies as their skin is sloughing off because it wasn’t ready for the world it was thrown into.  It made me bawl reading her posting.  I’ll never forget our NICU experience or the love she showed our little girl.  She spent more time with Kaylee than I did.  She was there when Kaylee opened her eyes for the first time.  She bathed her and changed her diapers and held her little hands.  I hope she knows how much I appreciate all she did for us.  I wish I never had to go through that.

    I have a close friend right now going through a lot of similar experiences with her son.  Her son was just diagnosed with a not-so-pretty diagnosis that will potentially affect him the rest of his life.  As much as I have been through, I realize that I don’t know what the heck to say to her.  I know she needs time to sort through everything and I’m giving her space and an ear to hear her if she needs to talk.  When all this happened to me I know I shut everything and everyone out.  We ran into friends of friends this past week.  I was remembering the last time I had seen this girl was at my friend’s first baby shower.  She said no, we had seen her last at my friend’s 30th b-day party.  I said, no, sorry we weren’t at that party.  Then everyone kind of gave me a weird look and said yeah, we were there.  Even Eric said we attended.  Honestly I have no recollection of being at that party and Eric said it was the week before the babies were supposed to be coming home.  Well, that explains it.  I may have physically been at that party, but there was no way I was mentally there.

    We were at this amazing toddler amusement park yesterday with my mom.  We were watching Paige and Cole riding these little cars that go around in circles and I could see she was almost going to cry.  I too wanted to cry because they looked so grown up riding in their little cars.  She said it made her so happy to see me actually enjoying the kids.  It’s nice to be on the up-swing with everything and actually be able to sit back and appreciate the moments without thinking “what’s next?”.  Things are definitely awesome now. 

    Speaking of awesome….Cole is sitting watching the dog show on TV.  Future veterinarian??

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    The Dance

    eric   March 6th, 2008      9 comments...sweet!





    I did get a new video camera, but it doesn’t work. So we finally whipped out the old one to capture some classic moments. This is a video of Paige dancing. Is her style a “side effect of her prematurity”? haha?

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    Just some pics

    eric   March 4th, 2008      7 comments...sweet!

    Ripped Cole
    Doesn’t he look absolutely ripped in this picture?  I guess I’m not the only one working out!

    Pretty Paige
    What a great smile she has!

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    Sure he choked, but it’s bacon, it’s so worth a little choking!

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    Attack of the babies!

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